The Courage to Be Disliked: How to Free Yourself, Change Your Life, and Achieve Real Happiness
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The Courage to Be Disliked, already an enormous best seller in Asia with more than 3.5 million copies sold, demonstrates how to unlock the power within yourself to be the person you truly want to be.
Using the theories of Alfred Adler, one of the three giants of 20th-century psychology, The Courage to Be Disliked follows an illuminating conversation between a philosopher and a young man. The philosopher explains to his pupil how each of us is able to determine our own life, free from the shackles of past experiences, doubts, and the expectations of others. It’s a way of thinking that is deeply liberating, allowing us to develop the courage to change and to ignore the limitations that we and other people have placed on us. The result is a book that is both highly accessible and profound in its importance. Millions have already read and benefited from its wisdom. This truly life-changing audiobook will help you declutter your mind of harmful thoughts and attitudes, helping you to make a lasting change, achieve real happiness, and find success.
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Customers find the book easy to read and engaging. They appreciate the insights it provides and the practical advice it offers. Many describe the book as uplifting, motivating, and comforting. However, opinions differ on the dialogue style, narrative style, and format. While some readers find the dialogue enlightening and useful, others feel it distracts from the main ideas. There are mixed views on the trauma awareness aspect, with some finding it empowering and helpful, while others feel it’s not accurate.
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The Courage to Be Disliked, already an enormous best seller in Asia with more than 3.5 million copies sold, demonstrates how to unlock the power within yourself to be the person you truly want to be.
Using the theories of Alfred Adler, one of the three giants of 20th-century psychology, The Courage to Be Disliked follows an illuminating conversation between a philosopher and a young man. The philosopher explains to his pupil how each of us is able to determine our own life, free from the shackles of past experiences, doubts, and the expectations of others. It’s a way of thinking that is deeply liberating, allowing us to develop the courage to change and to ignore the limitations that we and other people have placed on us. The result is a book that is both highly accessible and profound in its importance. Millions have already read and benefited from its wisdom. This truly life-changing audiobook will help you declutter your mind of harmful thoughts and attitudes, helping you to make a lasting change, achieve real happiness, and find success.
by Amazon Customer
Embracing Divine Freedom: The Courage to Be Disliked in the “Christian” Journey
In âThe Courage to Be Disliked,â authors Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga present a compelling dialogue that bridges the gap between psychology and philosophy, drawing on the principles of Alfred Adler, a founding figure of individual psychology. The book is structured as a conversation between a philosopher and a young man, providing a unique narrative style that engages readers on both intellectual and emotional levels.One of the most significant contributions of this work is its exploration of the human desire for approval versus the necessity of self-acceptance. Kishimi and Koga argue that the need for recognition from others often leads to a life dictated by external expectations, thereby stifling personal growth. They challenge readers to cultivate the courage to be disliked, a radical notion in a society that often prioritizes conformity and seeks validation through social acceptance.The authors delve into the importance of embracing oneâs individuality and the role of community in fostering personal development. They advocate for accountability to oneself and the value of authentic relationships over superficial connections. This perspective is particularly relevant in todayâs hyper-connected world, where social media often blurs the lines between genuine interactions and performative relationships.Moreover, the book resonates with biblical principles, emphasizing themes of personal responsibility and the transformative power of self-acceptance. Readers familiar with spiritual teachings will find profound connections between Adlerian psychology and scriptures that promote love, understanding, and community engagement.The dialogue format maintains a refreshing pace, inviting readers into a philosophical inquiry that prompts introspection. With each turn of the page, Kishimi and Kogaâs insights provoke thought and reflection, offering practical guidance that readers can apply to their own lives.While some may find the ideas challenging or even counterintuitive, âThe Courage to Be Dislikedâ ultimately serves as an empowering manifesto for anyone seeking to break free from the shackles of societal expectations. It encourages a shift in mindset, proposing that true happiness lies in the acceptance of oneself rather than the pursuit of external approval.In conclusion, âThe Courage to Be Dislikedâ is not merely a self-help book; it is a philosophical treatise that compels readers to rethink their understanding of self-worth, relationships, and personal freedom. Whether you are a seasoned scholar or a curious newcomer to these concepts, this book is a valuable addition to your libraryâan enlightening read that promises to foster growth and enhance oneâs journey towards self-discovery.
by Aditya Ali
One of my favorite books ever
It’s such a quick yet grounding read. It’s a great outlook on life and there are many ways to practically apply it to your own life – highly recommend the sequel, “the courage to be happy” as well
by M. L. Asselin
Living Oneâs Life in Service and Without Regard to Criticism
âThe Courage to be Dislikedâ is âa distillation of [Alfred] Adlerâs philosophical and psychological ideas and teachingsâ (p. ix) through the filter of the Japanese philosopher, Ichiro Kishimi. Fumitake Koga wrote a Platonic-like dialogue to convey these ideas as a vaguely Stoical guide to living oneâs life. The ideas include (1) separating tasks, focusing on what is in your control and what is not; (2) living in the present rather than dwelling on past failures; (3) deriving oneâs value from how one contributes to the well-being of others, the community; (4) not deriving oneâs value from the approbation of others, and having the courage to be disliked (i.e., donât seek validation or approval of others but do what is right); and (5), perhaps the most difficult to accept, that we are not the victims of our circumstances.The English translation tends to be stilted. (No credit is given to a translator, so it may be that this was machine-translated.) Nonetheless it is passable and conveys the ideas mostly in a clear fashion. Christians and adherents of Stoic philosophy will recognize many of the concepts being described and promoted.
by Kevin Stecyk
A Must-Read Book to Prepare Yourself to be of Service to Your Community
Two fictional characters, Youth and Philosopher, have a long engaging set of conversations regarding Adlerian psychology in The Courage to be Disliked.Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung, and Alfred Adler were three pioneers in the field of psychology, with Adler being the least famous of the three.I am not wild about the narrative dialog format of this book. That said, I can see that the book might be dry if it were written in a textbook format.Five main themes stood out for me:1. Separation of tasks2. All problems are interpersonal relationship problems3. Community creates a sense of belonging4. Relationships should be horizontal and not vertical5. Stay focused on the here and now, not the past or the futureIn separation of tasks, you ask yourself whose task is this. If it is yours, then you take care of it. Donât worry about how they perceive you doing your task. If the tasks belong to others, then you provide space for them to complete their tasks.All problems are interpersonal relationship problems. According to Adlerian philosophy, âif all interpersonal relationships were gone from this world, which is to say if one were alone in the universe and all other people were gone, all manner of problems would disappear.â All problems revolve around relationships with others.Our community provides a sense of belonging because none of us can exist as a singular entity. You use goods and services provided by others. As long as you can feel that you are of use to someone else, then you can feel from your own subjective viewpoint that you are making contributions to others, and that provides a sense of your worth.Relationships should be horizontal and not vertical where there are no praises or rebukes. Praise or Rebukes imply that a hierarchical relationship exists because a person has the power to either praise or rebuke. You should strive to be equal with all others.We cannot change the past, and the future is an abstraction. Worrying about either is wasteful. Life is a series of moments called ânow.â And we can only live in the here and now. Despite the wishes of some, life is not linear progression. Instead, life progresses as a series of dots.By the end of the book, I found myself grasping to recall everything that I read and to put it into an easily understood mental model. While the book made sense while reading it, by the end, I had forgotten some of the material I read earlier. I just cracked open The Courage to be Happy. From the brief amount that I have read, it seems to reinforce the material covered in The Courage to be Disliked.Because this book made me think more about relationships, I highly recommend The Courage to be Disliked.
by Angel
Just read
Currently trying to change my way of thinking and I think this is a perfect starter book, gives you a whole new perspective <3
by Yugo Miyahara
Por mais que algumas vertentes filosóficos tenham se popularizado, vale estar se,pre aberto a conhecer novas. Essa de Adler é uma indispensável para se refletir
by Taylor
One of the best books I have read in 2024. Moving and gets the brain thinking and overcoming obstacles. Perfect condition when arriving.
by Unix62
The way itâs structured makes it more lively and easier to relate. A great book for everyone whoâs interested in Theologie but also interesting for those who already have some knowledge about educational theories or are familiar with Freud and others. If youâre not a native it might be a little difficult to understand at first, since the language is not to direct but more veiled.
by Lizbeth
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by BOVEE Tess
Jâai bien apprécié cette réflexion sur la philosophie Adlerienne.